In a Relix interview around the time of this album’s release, Warren Haynes, when asked about this particular song, said he explicitly wrote it while reflecting on the famous cliché “You Can’t Go Home Again” – He noted that while you are on a lifelong journey, looking back makes you realize exactly how much you have lived through and how much you, and the places you came from, have changed.
I agree and as usual he captures things so beautifully in his lyrics. For me, I can’t go home again, but not because it has changed, but because I have.
Over the course of my life I have been learning to recognize all the stuff I have been carrying, to actually feel the weight of the things that have burdened me, and to drop them. And often, as Kelly Carlin once told me, to look at them and say “What the fuck, why do I have that – it isn’t even mine!”
Life is heavy, and the only way through the mess is through “Dreams & Songs” – like this one.
I posted the lyrics below and I encourage you to read through them.
Lyrics
My whole life’s been filled with songs and dreams When I was a child I had a time machine Little did I know it would go too fast Little did I know I could see the future But not the past Leave it all behind come what may Always thought I’d be coming home someday Little did I know that life is hard Here I am now staring out a window In my old backyard
Is there any comfort to be derived In knowing that most of our lives Can never be the same We can never go back home And those that can are lucky I guess To somehow escape from this mess Me I can only do it in dreams and songs Trying to fill the hole while running the race Leaves an even bigger empty space
But a moving target is harder to kill Never was one for taking it easy Or standing still
Nowadays I find myself again Throwing stones of caution to the wind Nothing’s really changed but the scenery Staring into my child’s eyes I realize What it all means to me
Is there any comfort to be derived In knowing that most of our lives Can never be the same We can never go back home And those that can are lucky I guess To somehow escape from this mess Me I can only do it in dreams and songs
Is there any comfort to be derived In knowing that most of our lives Can never be the same We can never go back home And those that can are lucky I guess To somehow escape from this mess Me I can only do it in dreams and songs
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